Posts Tagged ‘introspection’

Self-interest and self-centeredness turned around by introspection

Today was my birthday. I don’t usually like telling people, and I get all blushy and stuff when I get that kind of attention. My Facebook page was aglow today. It makes me uncomfortable, but even if I hide my birthday, someone who already knows it will say something and then the whole world will know.

It was a damned good thing Mom and Dad were here though because I started out the day weepy. Hubby called first thing (of course) ..read more

The way one thing leads into something completely different…

I decided I was going to read instead of watching more NCIS (as much as I love it, there is just so much NCIS I can take at once). So I turned on the standing lamp right over my head on the couch and settled in to read … only … it was still dark.

Now, it’s a 3-way lamp, so I turned it again and the bulb blinked on and I realized that one of the filaments in the ..read more

Regaining control over my life

This week is shaping up to be rather productive. After a loving pep-talk from the hubby, I decided to forcefully take back my time. Enforce my boundaries, organize my time and insist that everyone around me march to my tune.

Ok, ok – maybe not so much … but with a little help from specific people and suggestions, I managed to re-capture my time and am now working to keep hold of it. It’s easy to say: “here are my ..read more

Reality checking in … like a kick in the chest

His orders are sitting on the table. It’s a reality then. I guess I was thinking and hoping that something would come up and the whole thing gets cancelled or postponed … stupidly. It was a go the minute we got orders to report to this duty station way back in June of last year. The reality of seeing it in print … is staggeringly sobering. It’s an instant smile-wiper.

He is definitely going.

Frankly, aside from all-of-a-sudden sober, I am not ..read more

Knowing when a mistake is just a mistake and moving on

For the second time in my life, (and funnily from the same source), it’s been demonstrated that no matter how much good I think I’m doing, someone else has an entirely different perspective. When I am speaking truths that need to be spoken but they aren’t ready to be heard – and probably will never be – what it results in is this: a complete and painful disconnect. So I face a choice:

Regret the time and effort and emotion given?

Or ..read more

True love, Valentine’s Day and a revelation

On Friday of last week, I stumbled on this post linked on twitter. (Incidentally, because I re-tweeted it, the blogger subsequently followed me … ha!). I shared it with a friend who then thanked me profusely for it because it gave them insight into love as it is for some in a way they had never before had the opportunity to see for themselves. Their parents were never married and so they never got to see this kind of thing ..read more

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